What is Regulation?
Regulation is the ability to notice, manage, and respond to physical or psychological experiences in ways that support learning, connection, and decision-making. When individuals are regulated, they can access the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for reflection, problem-solving, and self-control.
What is Dysregulation?
Dysregulation occurs when the stress or overwhelmed response is activated and the brain shifts to its lower, reactive systems. In this state, individuals may have difficulty thinking clearly, managing emotions, or responding flexibly. Behaviours may look impulsive, withdrawn, or emotionally intense, not because of choice, but because the brain is focused on survival. 7
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Why This Matters in Youth Settings
- Stress and trauma make dysregulation more likely, especially for young people whose brains are still developing.
- Learning, communication, and reflection are much harder when someone is dysregulated.
Behaviour is often a signal of a safety and regulation need, not a discipline issue.
What is Self Regulation?
Self-regulation is the ability to recognize and manage one’s emotions, thoughts, and physical reactions in ways that support learning, relationships, and daily functioning.
Self-regulation is not about “controlling” or suppressing emotions. It is about learning skills that help young people experience and respond to emotions safely and effectively. When young people are able to self-regulate, they can calm themselves, know when/how to ask for support, refocus attention, and make more informed choices, even during stress or re-activation.
Self-regulation develops over time and looks different for each individual. It is influenced by brain development, life experiences, and the level of support available. For many young people, especially those impacted by stress or trauma, these skills are still emerging and require practice and guidance.
According to Center for Instructional and Behavioral Research in Schools (CIBRS), self-regulation skills include:
- Self-monitoring
- Recognizing your own triggers
- Identifying your emotions and the emotions of others
- Using calming techniques
- Self-reflecting
Educators can support self-regulation by helping youth:
- Notice and name emotions and body signals
- Understand what helps them feel calm, focused, or grounded
- Practice strategies such as breathing, movement, routines, or taking breaks
- Reflect on what works for them in different situations 8
What is Coregulation?
One strategy for supporting students with overwhelming feelings is coregulation. Young people often need support from a calm, trusted adult or peer before they can regulate on their own.
Co-regulation happens when educators:
- Stay calm and predictable during moments of stress
- Offer structure, reassurance, and guidance
- Use steady tone, supportive presence, and clear, minimal language
- Help students return to a regulated state before expecting problem-solving or learning
Over time, consistent co-regulation helps youth build their own regulation skills. 9